Friday, July 14, 2006

Ask For More...?

recently i've been pondering over some thoughts that have been nagging me ever since i became single again. when dating a guy, what is it that i look for?

is it his attitude towards certain areas in life?
is it the weakness in him which attracts me?
or is it his charisma and the chemistry that we both have for each other?

i find myself going on dates and comparing them to an ideal picture perfect boyfriend, a benchmark if i may. but with pop culture's and society's take on capitalism, dare i say that we are not satisfied with whatever we've got? have we become immune to disposing boyfriends and equiping new ones in which we find are better? it's all like Role Playing Games, one starts off with a pathetic weapon and upgrades it to an even better one.

but the main question is this, should i not wait for Mister Right and go for Mister Right Now? should i settle for less? should i gamble my heart for someone who is less than perfect?

when dealing with my romantic life, should i throw my ideals out the window and be with someone just because?

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