Serenity

Someone once sent me an e-mail with the content on dating; something about going on hundreds of bad dates so when the right one comes along you'll know it. We meet people all the time, whether it's on the streets of Kuala Lumpur, in the local watering hole or online at various dating websites.

I recently met someone a couple of days ago whom I can really fall for. He's got a wicked sense of humour, devilishly cute, the whole package. We've been on a couple of dates and it's awkward for me since I almost never have these sort of feelings just after meeting anyone. This got me thinking, do I really like the guy or am I so starved for a relationship that I imagined myself a great guy? I started to wonder whether the person who wrote the e-mail about the bad dates was on crack or in the same position that I am in.

I brought him to meet a couple of my friends and they seem to like him a lot. One of which said to me "I've never seen you this happy" and then started scowling at me when we held hands or pecked each other's cheeks. I suppose there is a limit to the amount of PDA when you're around friends.


There are also some things that I'm afraid to ask and yet is on my mind constantly. Are we dating? Are we boyfriends? Or are we just two people who enjoy each other's company and have great sex? I try to tell myself (and him) that I rather not go through the technicality of labeling what we are and defining our relationship so therefore we are undefinable. Makes life a lot easier.

So I'll just wait....and see how this goes.